bye bye 2011. i'll miss u

2011

jan 1 - celebrating wan's birthday at home with the whole family
jan 2 - celebrating wan's first birthday alone. SMART TAG was the best birthday present idea
feb 23 - bought ticket for HONEYMOON in november
march 19 - preparation for wedding, FINISHED!
march 26 - the day of our akad nikah
march 27 - our wedding day
march 30 - my first nasi goreng for darling husband
march 30 - our first getaway
april 1 - first night sleeping at our own house
april 2 - wedding day part 2, wan's side
april 4 - our sijil nikah dah siap.!
april 13 - my first tom yam for darling husband
april 16 - wan first time in Jakarta and Bandung
april 20 - our kad nikah dah siap!
may 11 - my first birthday as wan's wife
july 6 - pre honeymoon pangkor
august 1 - found out that wan's birthday in tahun islam sama dgn tarikh nikah!
august 1 - first ramadhan as husband and wife
august 30 - raya pertama as husband and wife
sept 15 - first missed period
sept 15 - first UPT, POSITIVE
sept 15 - second UPT at Klinik Hanita, confirmed positive
oct 12 - third UPT and first blood test at govt clinic, confirmed pregnant, buat buku merah
oct 25 - first pre natal check up
nov 17 - HONEYMOON at lake toba
nov 21 - second check up, first ULTRASOUND
dec 16 - first time BABY KICK at seventeen weeks
dec 17 - first time being admitted at hospital serdang
dec 20 - second time being admitted at hospital serdang
dec 26 - wan's first time feeling the baby kicks.!

boleh ke?

i bought 2 tickets flight airasia utk terbang bulan mac depan. 25-27mac. masa beli tiket tu (june 2011 tak silap), sgtlah murah sebab sale airasia..rm34 for 2 tickets pergi balik. masa beli tu, perut ni masih kosong. since sekarang dah berpenghuni, i don't think i should be flying around that time sbb masa tu da sarat, tinggal 2 bulan sebelum my due date.

soalannye skrg, boleh ke kite tukar nama tiket tu kepada nama org laen..? sedih nak membazir... i'll definitely call airasia utk find out jawapan..harap2 boleh.. please..please..

in the mean time, since plan A iaitu honeymoon ke-ntah brapa kali kena strike out., i need to have plan B untuk sambut anniversary..hmm...mari fikir!

baby updates!

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his birthday is coming.!

tinggal berapa hari je lagi wan nak menua setahun lagi dan menjadi "setahun" lg tua dpd win..muahahaha,, 26?? tuanyeeee! win baru 25 tau.

this is ur first birthday as my dearly beloved husband.. n nnti lagi berapa bulan nak anniversary kahwin pulak..! oh my..oh my..begitu cepat masa berlalu.

p/s and i love u more and more everyday!

alamak!

dear baby,

mummy so stressed out. mummy tried to give advice to her. but she didn't get it..or she got it wrongly..or she misinterpreted mummy. and mummy is so stressed out because of that. stress is not good for u. mummy so sorry dearest baby *sigh*

what should mummy do as a next step? ntah la.. mummy believes that mummy is obliged to never let go of this matter. she is mummy's baby sister. and mummy failed to make her see mummy's point. but somehow, she kinda ask mummy to back off.

maybe mummy should back off, don't u think? but time is running out. she has only 1 or 2 semesters left before her chance grows slimmer and slimmer. sbb selepas ni, maintain cgpa je boleh, lompat cgpa susah dah. never once mummy regards her as tak pandai mcm mummy or other dear sisters. kalau tak pandai tak la masuk universiti kan? tp dia ingat mummy cakap dia tak pandai mcm mummy.! dia ingat mummy pandai sgt ke masa zaman universiti dulu? hahahaha..baby dgr tu ye, nnti ur turn will come pulak, belajar pandai2, bley jadik profesional. mummy just risau dia tak anggap fokus pada study tu sebagai priority nombor 1.

pastu daddy ingatkan mummy yg lupa nak kasitau dia. kalau cgpa 3.5 masa grad nanti, dpt biasiswa. jpa ke, petronas ke..mana2 lah. murah rezeki. duit free! hati senang, nenek and atuk pun hati senang. kalau takdpt 3.5, biasiswa takde la. tp takpe jugak. ptptn masih boleh amik. tp ptptn bukan duit free la,..ptptn diploma da rm15000, campur lg rm15000 ptptn degree, dah rm30000. kena baya masa da stat keje nnti. hmm.. banyak tu.! nnti da stat keje nak bli kereta lagi, nak kawen lagi..

well, all that have been said, maybe mummy should back off. and instead mummy should only focus on u and daddy,. after all both of u are my everything. so, i should start making the list a.s.a.p...yupp, ur list..so we can prepare the budget, and when the time comes, i can go shopping for u. u r coming sooner than u think u know? :).. can't wait to see how abg rayyan will react when he sees u.!

see, thinking of u makes me happy and stress-free. ur aunt is a big girl. i've said everything that is needed to be said, and it is up to her to colour her own path. i will never stop to doa for her. and hope that she'll come to me if she has any concern,. amin ya allah.!

i love u baby, please do not stop kicking me, move around more oke.? i love it very much, daddy loves that very much too.. he can also feel u when he touches mummy's belly when u dance :)..for now, that is the only way that u can communicate to us..eihh semoga cepat masa berlalu..mummy nak sgt jumpa baby!

love,

mummy.

p/s ...

mood lepas cuti panjang

selalunya lepas cuti panjang, org normal mesti tidak berMOOD untuk membuat kerja dengan bersungguh-sungguh walaupun kerja telah bertimbun sbb cuti panjang sgt.

that is my dilema for the past 2 days (yesterday and today)..oh my..cptlah smpai angin bekerja bersungguh-sungguh ni!! pleaseeeeeee...

p/s mc kerajaan yang panjang ;P

cerita risau.

saya sangat risau tentang adik saya yang baru mula belajar dah MULA bercinta. memang mak cakap cari boyfriend jgn masa sekolah tapi masa U. tapi bila dah jumpa boyfriend, jangan lupa nak beringat. jadi, read this and think.

apa yg saya nampak ialah seperti berikut:

1. diploma stage

bila kita sedang dalam diploma stage, tahniah, kita pandai sebab da masuk universiti. tapi, kita belum selamat lagi. sebab, kalau kita grad dgn diploma (katalah nak mintak kerja government) kita akan dpt gred 27 je. it's good, but dear baby sister, it's not good enough, tak caya tanya ayah (statement ni mcm pushy and menambah beban kau, i know, tapi it's the truth and i am responsible to tell u the truth). nowadays ramai org ada ijazah, kita kena ada ijazah jugak ATAU LEBIH dpd itu. wajib.! (kalau nak mintak kerja swasta lagilah susah sbb ada diploma je.faham?) (gaji ijazah pun terasa kecik, apalagi gaji diploma?) NO OFFENCE TO OTHER DEAR READERS

masa diploma ni lah sepatutnya kau pulun abis2 sbb obviously diploma level lebih senang dpd degree level. faham ke ni? (pulun abis2 read: 3.50 cgpa minimum) adik, kakak kau dpt 3.72 for her first cgpa tau..u should get higher than that. serious ni tonk!

diploma stage berat sikit sbb kau kena fikir:

- nak dpt best cgpa;

- effect cgpa rendah, layak ke nak sambung ijazah???

2. ijazah stage

masa dah dpt offer sambung ijazah, seharusnya kau lagi bersungguh2. tapi truth is, kau akan jadik relax sikit berbanding masa diploma, sbb kau tak payah fikir sgt utk strive utk masuk next stage, kau cuma perlu fikir, cgpa kena setinggi mungkin dan maintain utk masuk llb hons.

but that doesn't mean yang kau bley honeymoon yet!

3. ijazah profesional stage

kau nak jadi lawyer kan? masa dah dpt tempat utk llb hons, kau kena belajar mcm gila. sbb lepas ni baru kau bley honeymoon. sikit je lagi..SIKIT je..

honeymoon

honeymoon adalah apabila kau dah kahwin, kau dgn suami tercinta kau pergi satu tempat pilihan kau dan tak payah fikir benda lain kecuali bercinta (and hasilnya kau dpt manusia comel spt rayyan hehe). masa tu lah kau sepatutnya boleh KUAT bercinta. fhm? ur time will come, but it is seriously/obviously not right now. please read this and think.

p/s i love u. i don't want to see u hanyut. dats all.

p/s stress tak? ngahahaha.. kau belum start kerja lagi, nnti da kerja kau lg stress.!

cerita bangga.

bulan julai last year, sebelum pregnant, dek kerana boring n nak duit extra tanpa perlu letak effort sgt, terbuatlah satu kelas tuisyen utk budak sekolah rendah. sorg je student darjah dua. very spoil budak ni. boy, 8 years old. segala jenis technology mak bapak dia belikan. dah la anak tunggal..mmg manja n spoil and slalu merajuk (boleh tak? hehe) dia slalu sakit (demam selesema etc.) so selalu mc tak dtg sekolah. so, gred dia turun jadik C (ni paling pandai la ni) biasa dia dpt D and E. maka, mak dia risau, cari kelas tuisyen utk anak dia.

maka paths kami bertemu, bergurulah syahmi dgn kak awin.! ujian bulanan dia nmpak ada kemajuan sikit je..dah takde E..tp ada D..hmm..susah nak ajar kalau budak spoil. tp everything was smooth. smpailah cikgu tuisyen ini pregnant. pening, lembik, muntah etc, maka syahmi diberhentikan dr tuisyen bermula bulan 10.. :( kesian..sgt kesian. sbb mak dia sgt berharap. lg pun mana ada tuisyen murah gile mcm ni!!

tiba2 today mak dia sms "januari boleh sambung tuisyen tak? maaf lupa nak bgtau syahmi dpt 3A utk BM n BI n dpt naik kelas yg lebih bagus, terima kasih"..

cuba fokus pada font merah di atas. walaupun baru ajar dia lebih kurang 3 bulan..tp kan..bila diberitahu dpd 1C,1D,1E menjadi 3A...OMG!! i am so proud of u syahmi!! cayalah..*kembang cikgu kau nih*..heheh.. tetiba dpt confidence nak ajar anak org lagi..bley naik harga sikit..sikit je..

TAPI mcm mana? baby sendiri perlu perhatian..i'm not too well lately :( .. wan pun misti tak kasi..hmm..maybe lepas baby dah besar sikit? tapi busy nanti? hmm..we'll see.

p/s *BIG SMILE* bersemangat nak buat amal jariah lagi, insyaallah.

recovering is another story

in recovering, all i can say is "ouch"..yupp, it's not a very nice experience, please dear allah, kurniakan kesihatan kepada hambamu ini, juga kepada suamiku, ibubapaku, mertuaku, serta kakak2ku, dan adik2 perempuan dan lelakiku dan anak2 saudaraku.amin.

lawyer vs doctor

one thing a lawyer is better than a doctor is:

a junior lawyer will try to understand the fact of a case from its root, learning what and how the case happened, why, when and where, thoroughly in order to find a few solutions to settle or ways to fight.

a junior doctor will get a case and ask a lot of questions, what they want and need to know about the case only.

yesterday, i was treated by a specialist, she came with a bunch of new doctors (in training maybe). before she came, the new doctors approached me and asked questions. they didn't ask according to the chronology, at 1 minute they ask what happened at the end, the other minute they ask what happened yesterday. and then what medicine i have taken.i tried to tell them extra info according to my chronology (my style of investigating facts, before coming to a conclusion and forming a legal advice for my clients), they said, takpe2, yg tu takpe..they didn't want to know.

when they came with the specialist, the specialist asked a lot of questions that the new doctors can't answer, had they listened to me before, they should been able to answer (proudly) all questions but they didn't. kesian sgt, tp when the specialist asked me (the patient), i answered her directly. the new doctors said, eh tak ckp pun?..i tried people, i did, but u didn't listen..hmmm too bad..

not that i'm forming a conclusion that lawyers are better than doctors, but, this is only 1 fact that we lawyers are better at. (in gathering infomation)

by the way in my case, the doctors did do their job excellently, i am cured. thank u doctors :)!!! thank u thank u

can't deny that every nurse is doing a noble job!

yupp..this week is a hospital week, i've been admitted twice in a week, been surrounded by intolerable pain, a bunch of nice nurses and also good hearted doctors.. i can say that hospital serdang has given (and is still giving) me a good and excellent service, except for a fact that, every hospital (either the government's orthe private ones) requires u to wait, and wait, and wait..

btw, although i was qualified to be in a first class ward, but due to congestion of patients, i was given a bed in the third class..it was still comfortable during my first admission, but rather miserable during my second..a room for 4 is converted into becoming a room of 7 patients! sabar je lah.

the real story in this entry is really about the noble nurses. as i am writing this, they are cleaning up an old chinese woman on the bed next to mine, she is really sick..so they have to clean her up since she can't do it on her own *kesian, org tua tu*..by cleaning, i really mean "clean" as to everything from head to toe especially on the part that we usually need to do the cleaning in a bathroom! they closes the curtain, but u cannot stop the smell from travelling throughout the room kan? "lucky me"!!!

from the nurses' conversation, i can tell that they are having a rough time like "ya allah, nasib tak percik" (apa yg percik? yupp, the brown stuff that comes out from ur behind.) eiwwww!..

but the nurses do not get mad, not even irritated, but they keep calming the patient, "sabar ye aunty, sikit lagi" kinda words coming from their mouth, and they speak kindly to the patient. i am impressed.! how noble, they are not only cleaning a non-blood-related person, but a not-same-race patient too with an honest intention of doing their job. i love this!

and what they've done to me just now, when my dress was soaked with my own blood, was nice too! without hesitation and any negative feeling, they helped me until i am comfortable to go back to sleep. sayang nurse hospital serdang..!

ini adalah pengalaman baru bg saya, my first (and also second time) being admitted to the hospital, i was showered with the opportunity to witness the good side of medical services in malaysia.

perfect.

soalan: kalau masa kita sakit, tak boleh jalan, mahukah husband kita angkat kita bawak pegi klinik/hospital? angkat kita pegi toilet, bersihkan kita? tak larat nak makan, mau ke dia bagik/make sure kita makan? bangun tgh mlm sbb kita perlu dia, mau ke dia bangun dgn rasa ikhlas? if ur answers are yes, then, congratulations, u have married the right person. good for u.

to those who are not yet married, find someone that can really take care of you when u r at your lowest point..kalau dia berpaling, ask yourself, is he really the right person.??. (kalau kau tak tau jwpnnye, biar aku kasik tau, jwpnnye ialah NOPE).

p/s i love you Wan. happy 43th monthsary.!