during the month of october and november, i learnt something about life. it happens everyday but not many of us will notice it yet, but later (not simultaneously) they will, and when they will, they'll be hurt or not. whatever.
the other day, there was a beautiful wedding that i attended. very beautiful and simple. a month before that the bride message me to ask for my address so she could send me an invitation card. later i received the card and since we were not going anywhere on that day and the wedding was going to be held not far from home, so we (actually) went there without hesitation. i was glad to have come for i would regret so much if i didn't since the bride really honestly wanted to prolonged our friendship. but sadly, before the wedding, before the invitation card was received, i was so distant from her. she was not even in my close friends' list. Adding up to that, i attended because of the underlined reasons, not because i really wanted to attend. how cruel was that? (thank you Allah for opening my eyes, when i met the bride, when i congratulated her, i did it with an honest intention, with a sincere heart (my intention was reversed) i was glad i came and i came because of her..)
another "the other day" a friend ask for a favour, i came to the "rescue" because i regarded her as a close friend, a dear one. i was not feeling very well on that day but i managed to force myself to go and help her. but later i realized, she didn't regard me as dear as i regarded her all this time. that was hurtful. But i came to my senses that not all the time the reciprocity of friendship exists.!
the point is, u may like a person so much but she doesn't like u as much as u hope she would. i've been in both shoes, even when u are in the greener side, it is not the best of experience that u would want to have. but maturity will prepare u to rationalized and move on!..
p/s husband is not like that, he is your bestfriend and u are his too. at par!
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